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Soo, I really need help with guys. The thing is I always turn guys down, because I feel like I'm not ready at the time because I'm filled with nervousness and emoition... and I feel like hiding afterwards and embarassed-like! I don't wanna be prude about it either. So, I have two questions... if I like this guy too how can I be less stiff and nervous about it and be more of a care-free flirter (because in reality and deep down I want to date him, but I really need some tips!)? continued...
by Anonymous
well if you’re nervous or scared, it may not be the right time yet. if you’re going to be sexual with anyone, it should be a boy trust or know very well who won’t hurt you. there’s nothing wrong with being prude! society leads us to believe there is, but really it’s beter to wait for a good guy so you don’t get hurt in the end. if you really like this guy, think about it…if he likes you too, there’s nothing to be stiff or nervous about! you already got that out of the way, now just be yourself, be cute and fun, give him a sweet smile and a up-down glance with only the eyes, it shows you’re interested but not desperate ;)
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